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Cuffing Season Speed Dating Soiree Sunday 12/15 -- My friend at Lilly hosts a fun speed dating event for single yuppies late 20's-30's. Currently 15 women signed up vs. *5* men, may the odds be ever in your favor! If you are unfamiliar with the concept, its like swiping tinder but in real life!!

Cuffing Season Speed Dating Soiree Sunday 12/15 -- My friend at Lilly hosts a fun speed dating event for single yuppies late 20's-30's. Currently 15 women signed up vs. *5* men, may the odds be ever in your favor! If you are unfamiliar with the concept, its like swiping tinder but in real life!! submitted by DickNixon37 to indianapolis [link] [comments]

If you are a guy and want to look impressive on a date it's easy. Whenever your date asks what happened to your last relationship/why are you single, just say it wouldn't fit.

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Puppers needing a new home. I'm a single dad who just got full custody of my 2 year old son. I can't handle both of them. Great with other animals and kids, neutered, shots up to date. Please let your friends and family know. Please message me if you are interested in this very good boy. Thanks.

Puppers needing a new home. I'm a single dad who just got full custody of my 2 year old son. I can't handle both of them. Great with other animals and kids, neutered, shots up to date. Please let your friends and family know. Please message me if you are interested in this very good boy. Thanks. submitted by IDKMyName13 to jacksonville [link] [comments]

What % of single women are eliminated from your dating pool if you are slick bald?

I’m interested in what people think about this, and whether or not those of us who are need to lower our standards.
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Who decides if you’ll be selected for a trip ,birthright themselves or your provider (Mayanot)? Just curious because I can only really travel on a single date and was wondering if that means my friend and I are probably going to be waitlisted then?

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Think how long your bloodline dates back to. If you choose not to have kids, and your siblings do the same or you are an only child and have no cousins, you will end all of it. Tens of hundreds of years worth. Not a single descendant of you or your family will ever walk this earth again.

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@mitchellvii: Some good friends of mine are launching a new #MAGA Dating Site called "Righter" which intentionally excludes Moonbats, Trolls and Liberal Loonies - and it is driving them NUTS! If you are a single #MAGA and looking for a safe space to find your #MAGA Other, @wearerighter is it!

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If you're a single parent, you should leave the dating pool for 18 years, or until your kid/s are out of the house.

You fucked up. Your dating life is over. As a fit mid 20s male, I would never date someone with kids. I doubt I'll change my mind in my 30s or 40s. I assume everyone who is not a blob has similar opinions.
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If you learn that the guy in his mid twenties you are interested in dating has been single for 5 years what questions would come to your mind?

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Redditors who made promises with your bestfriend that you'll be dating each other if both of you are still single by the age of xx, how did it turn out?

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'Why are you still single?': The least awkward way to see if you have a future with your date

'Why are you still single?': The least awkward way to see if you have a future with your date submitted by okcnotthrowaway to OkCupid [link] [comments]

[WP] After years of beeing a desperate single, you are happy to date a wonderful girl regularly. Your favourite place is a french restaurant. Few days days later, a close friend asks if anything is wrong with you, cause he saw you dining alone, talking and laughing to yourself.

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Singles, what are your thoughts on dating a bisexual person? Non-singles, how would you react if your SO told you they were bisexual?

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If you were single (or maybe you are) what would your dating site description say about you?

I am a very much married lady, but find it fascinating what these ads say about you. It would suck if I was single, my greatest passion is heirloom seed saving. I have seen lots of great unions happen through dating sites with my friends. What would you say about yourself and what you are looking for in a mate?
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The internet is a much friendlier place if you think of the "Meet singles in your area!" ads as just suggestions from a friend on getting into the dating scene rather than the scams that they are.

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Single Parents of Reddit: What do you look for when you introduce your child to someone you are dating to see if things will work or not?

Yes, this is a throwaway.
I'm going to meet my girlfriend's 2 year old daughter. Everything between us has gone smooth and we align on the important things. No instabulity or red flags to speak of... but I have no idea how to handle a kid in this instance. She's not looking for a replacement parent, but I want to make sure that things go well. There are no expectations on her end since I have limited experience with children. What do you look for or pick up on (good or bad) when your child meets someone you're dating?
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What are you gonna do if you know that your mom (currently single) dates a married guy? The worst part is she knows and doesn't think if it's the wrong thing.

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Fuck people that assume you want to bang/date your best friend just because they are from the opposite sex.

I'm a guy and my best friend is a girl, which back in college I even dated for a few months. Now, this is a girl that I consider my sister, we are pretty much family at this point.
This is a very good looking girl I'm talking about, way above average. And I know for a fact that plays a big role in people thinking I'm in the friendzone or that I'm "simping" or whatever.
A lot of people (especially men) can't seem to understand that I don't want to hook up with her. I have no interest in dating this woman, nor in even hooking up. But I get so much unsolicited advice on "how to behave to get with her" (which almost always involves being a dickhead). Legit had someone tell me I should give her bad advice so she would break up with her girlfriend so I could have a chance. What the fuck?
And don't even get me started on what some "friends" I had at the time said cause she's bi. When she found out she came to me for support, we had just started dating two months back, and I encouraged her to try with other girls if she thought she was bi and find out and I suggested we broke up so she could do that. And the amount of times I heard some guy say something along the lines of "she's just going through a phase bro, you gotta give her some D". I never suggested breaking up with her because I thought she would try with girls and then not like it and come back. I did precisely for the opposite reason, I wanted her to find out who she was. Her happiness and self journey was more important than having a relationship. Case and point, she has a long term gf now she loves and I have the best, most supportive friend I've had my entire life.
I just don't get it, how can you claim to love someone but then not value their happiness to the point you actively try to fuck up their life in the hopes of a hook-up.
We been friends for years now, and to this day I still get some dudes that don't fully get it. "Wait so you actually don't want to get with her?" -> Comment I got today from another friend, who knows I've been friends with this girl for a long ass time.
If you're one of those people: Do you not experience caring for someone? Is all the nice things you do to girls a pretext for sex? Seriously how do you even live like that.
EDIT: For some comments that don't seem to understand: Y'all ever heard of personal relationships changing and evolving? Have you never changed as a person your entire life? Idk what's so hard to see that we dated and that was that. And then we became really close friends, and eventually it evolved into me considering her as my family. Y'all seriously thinking I'm considering this girl my sister and then afterwards I dated her? I can't even understand this mentality.
That being said most response has been positive here, glad to see that.
EDIT2: Yes I'm single and I go on dates, with other women that aren't my best friend! Shocking I know, it's almost as if there is other women in the world besides my bestie I could go for. Most of the comments here make me worry you guys are finding one woman and obsessing over her, y'all downers acting like my best friend is the only person in my life.
Final Edit: Thanks everyone that proved my point by claiming I want to bang her or date her right now. It's funny how you think you know more about how I feel, given how you know nothing about me. I can only guess you're projecting yourself in my situation. I do hope you find a good friendship with a girl that doesn't make you insecure about your masculinity just because you aren't trying to bang. Some of you even felt the need to private message me about how much I supposedly want to bang my bestie.
And as an end note: The fact that I dated her in the past means nothing, people don't assume that I want to bang her because of that. If anything I'd think they assume the opposite since we already banged. You all know very well the reason they assume I want to bang her is because they think you can't be friends with the same gender you're attracted to. It's also funny how no one ever thinks I'm only friends because I'm trying to bang when I'm with another close girl friend that isn't as good looking. I really think you are missing out on so many opportunities for good friendships by seeing women only as things to bang.
And here's a final hint for all the dumbasses that think "Alpha" is a thing in humans: Alpha males in animals are the Alpha because they have the respect of those around them. (How they earn that depends on species). Thinking you need to bang every woman you come across just makes you immature. I know a lot of people angry at me and so adamant that I want to bang her think that because it's how they would react to being in my situation. I can't imagine if you guys actually end up dating someone how possessive you're gonna be over your girlfriend, since you'll assume every guy she talks to is gonna try and bang her...
Love is love, and it can be non-romantic. That's why I now consider her my sister. We love eachother like family. I really hope everyone can experience that.
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Open Letter to Steve Huffman and the Board of Directors of Reddit, Inc– If you believe in standing up to hate and supporting black lives, you need to act

Open Letter to Steve Huffman and the Board of Directors of Reddit, Inc – If you believe in standing up to hate and supporting black lives, you need to act
Dear Steve,
On June 1, you shared a letter on Reddit’s blog “Remember the Human – Black Lives Matter”. In this letter, you claim “as Snoos, we do not tolerate hate, racism, and violence, and while we have work to do to fight these on our platform, our values are clear.”
As of today, neither you nor any other Reddit admins have shared this letter anywhere on However, the response to this message was swift on Twitter, where you were rightfully labeled as hypocritical based on your long and well-recorded history of defending racism and white supremacy on this site.
Among the many responses was this message from former CEO of Reddit, Ellen Pao.
I am obligated to call you out: You should have shut down the_donald instead of amplifying it and its hate, racism, and violence. So much of what is happening now lies at your feet. You don't get to say BLM when reddit nurtures and monetizes white supremacy and hate all day long
Many others shared links and screenshots of your past statements saying “Open racism and slurs are fine to post on Reddit”.
The problem of Reddit’s leadership supporting and providing a platform for racist users and hateful communities has long been an issue. Nearly six years ago, dozens of subreddits signed the original open letter to the Reddit admins calling for action. While the Reddit admins acknowledged the letter and said it was a high priority to address this issue, extremely little has been done in the intervening years.
On June 5, you shared this update on /Announcements, Upcoming changes to our content policy, our board, and where we’re going from here. In the post, you stated that there is a need for continued adjustments of Reddit’s content policy to address racism and that this remains a priority. These continued statements that you hear us, that this is a priority, or that you are working on it are not enough. It has been five years since your return as CEO and this still remains Reddit’s most glaring problem.
Steve, if you and Reddit genuinely care about the values of standing up to racism and hate, then you need to back it up with real action. As moderators on this website who have dedicated countless hours to keeping this site running, we call on Reddit to take the following steps:
  • Enact a sitewide policy against racism, slurs, and hatespeech targeted at protected groups. For too many years, Steve Huffman and the other Admins have stood by and allowed this site to fester with hate in the name of “free speech.” It is time to enact a specific and detailed policy that protects the disadvantaged members of our communities from hate based on their sexuality, gender identity, ethnicity, country of origin, religion, or disability.
  • Be proactive in banning hate-based communities In the past Reddit has only taken action on hate subreddits when they were featured in the news and risked Reddit’s reputation or when they were documented and featured on /AgainstHateSubreddits and other forums. AHS should not have to be responsible for raising awareness of hate subreddits and reporting them to the admins. This site should take responsibility for keeping its users safe by banning any remaining subreddits devoted to hate and racism and preventing the creation of hateful subreddits in the future.
  • Be proactive in banning hate users Reddit needs to not only ban hate subreddits, but must be proactive in banning the moderators of these subreddits and their most active users. Too often these users have been allowed to stay on this website after numerous sitewide violations, letting them move on to participate in new hate communities and spread their vitriol further across this site.
  • Reddit needs to hire more minorities / women, especially in leadership roles Reddit needs to hire more women and people of color — particularly in leadership roles in the company — to help shift the corporate culture and policies to be more equitable for all. In addition, Reddit needs to take adequate steps to protect these employees from harassment.
  • Reddit needs to hire more community managers According to Reddit's job listings there are dozens of open positions that the company is hiring for, and yet not a single one for Community. Reddit has enacted numerous policies over the years that have been detrimental to the ability of Reddit’s moderators or the broader Reddit community. Reddit needs more community managers to build positive relations and engagement with the site’s volunteer moderators.
  • Honor Alexis Ohanian's wishes to have his Reddit Board seat filled with a black candidate - On June 5, Reddit Co-Founder and Executive Chairman announced that he would be stepping down from his role on Reddit's Board of Directors. Alexis requested that his position be filled with a black candidate and we ask Reddit to honor that request. While you have stated your intent to honor that request, we are asking for an announcement to be made on this decision in the next 3 months. We believe this is not an issue that should be put off for action years down the road.
At /AgainstHateSubreddits, we have laid out the many failures of Steve time and again to stand up to white supremacy on this site time and time and time again.
With a website with the impact of Reddit on the broader conversations being held in communities around the world, this website needs real leadership and real action.
We hope that Reddit will not just share empty platitudes — but will take a meaningful stand against hate, and take these recommendations to heart.
This letter is co-signed by more than 200 300 350 430 550 650 800 communities representing well over 200 hundreds of millions of subscribers:
If your subreddit is not listed and would like to sign on, please leave a comment below
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A list of the current issues of the League client - Summer 2020 edition, in 25 pages.

Hey everyone!
I wanted to list the problems of the League+ phone app, but then decided to spare myself some time and to instead make a list of everything that worked right on that app. Problem is, League's subreddit doesn't accept submissions without text, so I had to cancel that and go back to client buglists. I was dissatisfied by the last one I made (it was rushed a bit, and lacked quite a lot of things due to that), so hopefully this one will be better.
Each point will have the "Recent" or "New" tag, or no tag. "New" means that the bug started appearing after January, and "Recent" means that it was new at the time of my previous buglist (in January) and hasn't been addressed since. Every category will be implicitly split into two sub-categories A and B. Issues x.A.n are bugs, and issues x.B.n are problems that are bad design choices rather than actual bugs.
Honestly, it's pretty annoying. The client randomly loses functionalities from one day to the next, and most of these never get fixed. A bunch of issues appeared at the start of January, I was expecting them to be gone soon since they had just appeared and had worked fine the whole time before, yet most of them are still here today – seven months later. Another big batch of issues appeared in May. I thought I'd have to hurry up to finish this buglist, expecting them to get fixed quickly. Nothing got changed until two patches later, and most of the new issues are still here now after two months passed.
Those aren't the standards that we should be made to have. The client is supposed to receive improvements, not to worsen over time, without the issues ever being fixed for the most part. And as I was writing this thread and checking my previous ones to see what I had forgotten, I realized something that's a clear bad sign – there are many problems that I initially forgot because I got too used to them (problems that the legacy client didn't have, or even that this client didn't have earlier on). Even pretty bad problems, too.
I deeply hope that someday, these issues will be tackled. I hope that bugs will be fixed, instead of being left there for us to get used to them, for us to get used to a worse client. I know it's a trend among every big product, to leave annoying issues up for years., Youtube, Facebook, Twitter, Linkedin, all of them do it. But the case of the League client is worse, when it really shouldn't be. When seeing a new bug, we should be thinking "Oh, that's annoying. But I just have to wait until the next patch and it'll be gone", rather than "Well that's what I'll have to deal with for the next three years now". And I hope for things to be like that someday. "Mordekaiser's bugs leaking onto other parts of League" was supposed to be a meme, not to be made into a reality.
Anyway, let's get started!
1) Friends list
1.A.a) Receiving a game invite will not play any sound if you have another invite pending.
1.A.b) [New] When a friend is in an open lobby, the names of the players in that lobby aren't shown anymore. Screenshot
1.A.c) [New] The game created doesn't show the map anymore. Only "Creating Normal/Ranked Game". The fun fact is that Discord shows which map a friend is creating a game on, meaning that Discord is a more reliable source than the League client, when it comes to a feature of the League client.
1.A.d) [New] If you hover over a friend while they're in queue or champ select, hovering over them again while they're in game will still show them as being in queue / CS, instead of showing them as being ingame (meaning that you can't see their ingame time, or the champion picked / mode played). Changing the sorting of the friends list refreshes it and clears that problem. (Sort alphabetically > Sort by status, or the other way around. You can also switch back immediately after.) I'm just not sure this pro tip really will help anyone, because since we're already 4 bugs in, there should be a maximum of 3 people reaching that point. Screenshot
1.A.e) [New] Here's the opposite issue! Screenshot
1.A.f) [New] After logging in, and sometimes after playing as well, the Recently Played list (from the Add Friends tab) will permanently display a loading symbol. Without loading, should you be wondering.
1.A.g) [New] There's no way to watch the profile of someone who's in game on another game or region. You can watch the profile of someone who's online on League, you can watch the profile of someone who's disconnected (even if they've never played League and have only played the other games), but as soon as they log in on another game, you can no longer look at their profile from the friends list. The option simply disappears. I'm not sure when this problem started. Screenshot
1.A.h) [New] One of my two computers will often fail to show that someone disconnected, and will keep showing them as being online, until I restart my own client. It's been like that for months, while my other computer has never had that issue.
1.A.i) [New] After someone disconnects, they will sometimes (semi-rarely) show up in your friends list as being offline (or on League+ if they use it). But they'll show up this way in your regular friends groups, while they should be in the Offline (/mobile) one.
1.A.j) [New] If a friend is creating a game while being on Away, hovering over them will show them as Away instead of creating a game. Screenshot
1.A.k) [New] Hovering over your own profile will not show your correct status. Only "Online" no matter what. Screenshot
1.A.l) [New] A person spectating is now going to be shown in green instead of blue (keeping the "Spectating" tag). One good thing coming with that is that they can be invited to a lobby – however, they can't accept the invite until they leave the spectate, just like one cannot spectate while in a lobby. The problem of this bug/change is that it means that you can't spectate a spectate anymore. For as long as I've played League – and I'm on the boomer side of this game by now – when one of your friends was spectating, you could click Spectate on them in order to watch the game that they were spectating. And since you can only spectate someone from your friends list, it's been a nice thing to have. As of this patch, this is no longer possible.
I need to take some time to state what's wrong with this, because there's a bit more than already stated. a) It's good that you can invite someone who's spectating. This should be a normal function, not something we get as a tradeoff for what's likely to just be a bug. b) It isn't normal that we still can't spectate while waiting in the lobby. This is an upgrade that we could have expected years ago already. Ever since we've been told that a new (the now current) client was in the works. c) If you're watching a replay, you can be invited, and you can also be in a lobby. Same thing if you're spectating a game through a file (when spectating through third party websites or apps). So there should be no reason for these two things to be unavailable for a live and official spectate (I don't mean no reason codingwise, but no reason to not make it a possibility). d) There's also no reason to lose the ability to spectate a friend's spectate.
The way things should be is: a) Spectating appears the way it currently does (Showing "Spectating", but in green, and being put alongside the online friends). b) Right-clicking on a friend spectating gives you the option to spectate their game (as it used to until this patch). c) Receiving an invite while spectating lets you join the lobby and queue up. d) You can also start a spectate while in a lobby or in queue (exiting it upon entering champion select).
Side note – Sometimes, for no apparent reason, they're still shown in blue instead of green. But still without giving the option to join the spectate.
1.B.a) The friend requests that you received and left pending count towards your friend limit. If I’m not mistaken, they used to only count as they were accepted. And even if I’m mistaken, that should be the way things are, in my opinion (otherwise, why would you have a friends list cap and a pending request cap?).
1.B.b) When someone tries to send you a friend request while your list is full, the request doesn't go through, and you don't get notified of it. It would be best to at least know that someone tried to add you (and who it was, obviously).
1.B.c) The friends list notes can only be written over one line. And besides, the transition in the notes from the old client to the new client was poorly made. I used to have five-line notes such as this: Name Birth date Country Studies/Job Details about the game in which we met What did these notes become? NameBirth dateCountryStudies/JobDetails about the game in which we met They didn’t replace the line break with anything, not even a space or a slash. But the fact that notes can only be put in one line is a downgrade from the legacy client, making said notes a lot less clear.
2) Lobbies
2.A.a) [Recent] Regularly, after playing a game, the client will stop responding, for either a long period of time, or until you terminate it. In the best of cases, the honor screen will pop up, then clicking anywhere will prompt that the client stopped responding for a few seconds, and after a couple of attempts, you'll be able to honor someone, then use the post-game lobby functions, and so on. That being the best case scenario, the worst one being the client flat out no longer responding, forcing a termination.
2.A.b) [New] In the post-game lobby, the button to invite one of the game's players into your party doesn't work anymore. You can press it, but it won't do anything.
2.A.c) [New] Some of your friends will have their name show as "…" in the lobby, champ select, and post-game lobby. At first I thought this bug worked in a pretty obvious way – if someone in the party is in your friends list, their name gets replaced by those dots in the chat. Turns out it's actually inconsistent, and affects each client differently. Some people will only have part of their friends show like that, with the rest having their name written out normally.
2.A.d) The post-game lobby sometimes (fairly regularly) uses the Times New Roman font instead of the normal one.
2.A.e) [New] Occasionally, a person will be shown as having the roles of another player when entering a lobby.
2.A.f) The League voice mic settings sometimes change by themselves. I've seen cases of microphones getting muted automatically after each game, I've seen cases of the setting "Mute me when I connect to League voice" getting unchecked by itself. The latter is… not something that should happen. I can't give any additional details, as this seems completely inconsistent across people.
2.A.g) After finishing a game in a party, when one of your premades presses Play again, there's a ~5-seconds delay between appearing as having joined the new lobby, and them leaving the post-game lobby.
2.B.a) You can no longer press a button in a lobby to see someone’s profile. You used to be able to. And I don’t see why one would ever want to remove that feature, especially since you cannot copy someone’s name from the lobby into the Profile search if they were in the lobby before you and if they don’t type in the chat. Here’s how the lobby used to be, for reference: Screenshot
2.B.b) You can also no longer see someone’s rank as well as ranked (or normal if unranked) wins in the lobby, unless it is a custom lobby. Maybe that has been put there as a design choice, but losing function in exchange of form is a stance that numerous people disagree with.
3) Profile and collection
3.A.a) Collection > Champions: The ability videos can be extremely outdated. Shyvana's ability videos have been outdated for almost 4 years. Here's her E for one example, as shown in the client. All of her abilities were reworked in 2016, and yet the ability videos on the client are still the ones from before 2016.
Some other examples:
  • Kha still has his old R evolution. Removed in May 2018.
  • Ryze still snares with his default W. Removed in June 2019. Additionally, Ryze's Q and E don't show these spells spreading, while that's the norm for these videos.
  • Varus' W doesn't show the active part. It was added in April 2018.
  • Aatrox's ultimate… doesn't have a video. It loads indefinitely. Screenshot
3.A.b) [Recent] Collection > Items: In the Item sets, about half of the items can only be hovered once (Hovering over an item gives you its detailed information, doing it a second time will not show anything – for half of the items, arbitrarily – until you exit the item set and load it again).
3.A.c) If you created an item set with the old client and didn’t rename the block for “Starting items”, this block is now taking the name “starting”, while you never changed its name from “Starting items”. Yes, “starting” with a lowercase s.
3.A.d) Collection > Runes: Changing a rune tree isn’t something that can be canceled in a normal way. Let’s say you have a page with Resolve primary, and Domination secondary, and you decide to change it to Precision primary, but then change your mind. Here is what should happen: - You click on the Precision button (you can then fill or not fill the tree, it doesn’t matter). - You press the cross icon. - When you’re asked whether you want to save the changes, you answer no. - You open the rune page again. - The rune page will be back to its previous values. All good! But here’s what actually happens (initial set-up – yes, I'm recycling screenshots from 2018): - You click on the Precision button (you can then fill or not fill the tree, it doesn’t matter). Screenshot - You press the cross icon. - When you’re asked whether you want to save the changes, you answer no. - You open the rune page again. - The rune page will be back to the Resolve tree… but the tree will be empty. Screenshot - You press the cross a second time. - Once again, you answer no to whether you want to save changes, because Kha’Zix says that change is good, but I say that bugs are bad. - You open the rune page a third time. - Finally, the rune page is back to its initial values. Screenshot This happens for both the primary tree and the secondary tree. But! If you try to do that on both trees at once, there won’t be a problem and the page will be fully set back to its initial values.
3.A.e) Collection > Emotes: “Sort by acquired date” shows most recent to latest, but will always show the Thumbs Up emote almost first in spite of it always being the least recent one.
3.A.f) [New] Profile > Match history: The match history no longer includes the experience gained or grade earned in your matches. It used to randomly not display either of them, and I suppose the "fix" of the problem was to downgrade the client (and match history overall) by removing the feature altogether.
3.A.g) Profile > Match history > Overview: The gold graph, by default, shows the team gold advantage. However, the selected graph reads "Champion Gold" instead of "Team Gold Advantage", indicating the wrong category. Screenshot
3.A.h) Profile > Match history > Graphs: There is no “Total damage dealt” line in the Graphs. (There is a Total damage dealt category, but there should be a Total damage dealt line, just like there’s one in the Stats tab, and just like there’s a Total damage dealt to champions line. You currently have no way to show how much total damage you did in the Graphs tab.) Screenshot
3.A.i) Profile > Match history > Graphs: There is no “Largest critical strike” line in Graphs, unlike in Stats.
3.A.j) Profile > Match history > Stats/Graphs: The stats aren’t organized the same way. In Stats, you have one Income tab for the gold earned/spent and for the CS, while in Graphs, you have an Income tab and a Neutral Monsters and Minions category. Similarly, Stats regroup all of the damage dealt in a single category, not separated in Champions/Total.
3.A.k) Profile > Match history > Stats/Graphs: Total Damage To Objectives and Total Damage To Turrets have their place swapped from one tab to the other.
3.A.l) Profile > Match history > Stats: Jungle monsters are referred to as “Neutral Minions”. They’re called “Neutral Monsters” in Graphs. Besides, they are not minions, otherwise spells affecting minions differently would affect them that way too, while they don’t. And no, they’re not coded as such.
3.A.m) Profile > Match history > Stats/Graphs: Team totals are no longer accessible.
3.A.n) Profile > Stats: Stats are just wrong and miss plenty of games. The stats on my second account say that I have played 14 games as top lane Leona in season 2019. In reality, according to the official match history, I’ve played her top lane 33 times in 2019 (all of them being in preseason 10). Where the other 19 went, that I’ll never know.
3.B.a) [Recent] Collection > Champions: The page overall was made far worse when changed for the Eternals one year ago. I've described how I find it worse in a few pages, so, I'll just redirect you there for the full write-up of how I find it wrong!
3.B.b) Collection > Match history > Overview: The champion gold graph puts all the lines in the same colour for all the champions of a team. If you want to compare the gold of all of your opponents, there is no way to tell which line belongs to whom. Not even by hovering. Screenshot
3.B.c) Collection > Match history: The fact that you can only download replays from the current patch is really not convenient for the games that are played right before a patch hits. Additionally, the fact that you can only watch replays of the current patch (and must save a copy of each older patch if you want to be able to keep watching replays of these older patches, which takes entire gigabytes of memory), while third-party softwares have been able to restore older versions of the client ever since 2014ish, is kinda mind-boggling.
3.B.d) Collection > Spells: Each Summoner spell shows the game modes it can be used in, among Classic, ARAM, and Tutorial. I don't see a point in keeping the "Tutorial" one, since first, the tutorial summoner spells are the exact same as the Summoner's Rift ones, and second, the tutorial is meant to teach you about the game, rather than the game teaching you about the tutorial.
3.B.e) Collection > Item sets: Item sets cannot be sorted by champions.
3.B.f) Collection > Item sets: Item sets cannot be searched for based on the champion they’re for.
3.B.g) Collection > Item sets: There is now a limit of 100 item sets per account, down from not having any limit. This limit was put because the item sets are now stored online, not locally. But it means that the cap isn’t enough for one set per champion, not even close to it, and overall, that limit makes little sense. The vast, vast majority of the players doesn’t hit the cap or nowhere near it. The only people who reach it are those who already were past it before said cap, and limiting them won’t change anything. The cap was probably put there as a safeguard for if people with malicious intents tried to automatically create billions of sets on lots of accounts, but considering that people who just mean to play the game normally are affected by this, the limit could surely be better placed at 200, or 250. It would still block these negative attempts, while not affecting the experience of normal users.
3.B.h) Collection > Item sets: Item sets need an option to hide event-only items, ARAM/NB-specific items, as well as champion-only items. There are currently dozens of items that are either not accessible at all, or only accessible to one single champion. Dozens of items that simply take up space while being either never used (because they can't be used, not out of choice), or almost never used.
3.B.i) Profile: The profile page lost so much information. We could have stats about our normal games (win rates then wins only, plus other stats), and the win rate in each ranked queue. Riot decided to progressively hide all of this stuff – no longer able to see someone’s normal win rate, no longer able to see someone’s ranked win rate, no longer able to see someone’s top 8-11 mastery. The argument that Riot doesn’t want people to see others’ stats like that can be made, even though that’s a philosophy that I personally disagree with especially when the ranked stats are available in the API thus on websites anyway, but even agreeing with it, there’s a big problem with that. Other people can’t see these stats, but neither can you. Why can’t I see my own win rate in ranked? Why can’t I see my own wins and losses in normal queues? And it’s not even like Riot would want to hide these away from me, I can still get those stats by finishing a game. But instead of being able to simply click on my profile to see the stats about my own account, I must play a game for it.
3.B.j) Profile: The profile background tier ordering sorts skins based on whether they are Ultimate, Mythic, Legendary, Epic or Others. I think that adding at least a “Base” category would be nice, as none of the sortings allows to only have the base skins.
3.B.k) Profile: The profile background tier ordering sorts the champions by mastery within the tiers, instead of giving a choice that would allow for more instinctive choices, like alphabetical. Because I find it easier to search for a champion based on the fact that I know that its name starts with an N, rather than based on the fact that Nami is more or less my 60th highest mastery, fact that I do not know about for any champion that is not in my top 20ish.
3.B.l) Profile > Stats: You can’t remove the Queue filter in the Stats to display the results from all queues combined, which would be really useful to have the stats be taken over relevant amounts of data. It could be solved by simply adding an “All” option. Screenshot
4) Custom games
Overall, custom lobbies run on an old lobby model, that was already outdated many years ago, and Riot has shown no interest in putting it up to date. It shouldn't be the case considering that it's a part of their client, and it should even less so be the case considering that this is what their official tournaments are run on. This is the reason why rotating game modes aren't playable in custom on the new client (the current RGM, that is), this is why League Voice isn't a thing in custom game (… remember about tournaments?), this is also why you can't hover champs, and why skin previews aren't enabled either, among other things. But, here's for a full list of the issues (grouping bugs and non-bugs, because I don't want to split this one in two parts):
4.a) We cannot play RGMs in customs. The old client always allowed it, and the “improved” one still hasn’t received it. After more than four years.
4.a) You can’t check anyone’s profile from a custom lobby, the only option for that is to go in Profile and manually type their name. Good luck with special characters.
4.c) Custom games do not have League voice. In the mode where you’re technically always with premades. Custom games are also where even League’s official tournaments are hosted, so that makes little sense.
4.d) Trying to reinvite someone who was kicked will not send an invitation. In order to have someone who was kicked rejoin, you have no other option but to create another game and redo everything.
4.e) Can’t hover champions in champ select (that will display an error message).
4.f) There is also no skin display in champ select.
4.g) The rank displayed in the lobby is random at best. It seems like most of the time, when you enter the lobby, your highest rank will be shown, but then it can switch at any time to your solo queue rank, or to any other rank at random without it being either your solo queue rank or your highest rank.
4.h) On top of that, frequently, someone in the lobby will be shown as having the rank, ranked wins, and icon of another person from the lobby.
4.i) If you switch into spectator as the owner of the lobby, you’ll lose your owner rights and they’ll be transferred to the next person who joined. I don’t see any plus side to that, it just makes the organization messier.
4.j) It would be about time we got another way to reorder the teams other than having everyone go to spectate one by one in a specific order. Especially when playing scrims where one team asks for spectate to be disabled, in which case you actually need to have people leave the lobby and rejoin it in order to change the pick order.
4.k) Passwords are the only way to make a game invite-only, since the client doesn’t offer any other. However, when someone is invited to a game with a password, they won’t have access to the chat (and also won’t have any way to type the password anywhere to be granted access to that chat).
4.l) Custom games have no "Play again" button, when they're already harder to organize and set up than normal games.
4.m) Just like how the chat box stays small when you type a long message, since the same patch as the one when this issue started happening, the box to choose bots to add in custom games has also been reduced by a lot. Instead of displaying somewhere between 6 and 8 bots, it’s now only long enough to display 4.
While they technically shouldn’t have their own category, custom games have more than enough issues to warrant one, especially as they've entirely gone unaddressed since the migration to this client.
5) Champion selection
5.A.a) [New] While I've never had this issue myself, there have been regular reports of people seeing the champ select in the wrong order. Screenshot of the wrong order (you can see the last pick having to select their champion in the first rotation) / Screenshot of the real order
5.A.b) Let's say you have a trade pending in ARAM (or any other game mode with random picks), be you the initiator or the receiver. Whenever someone rerolls a champion, trades with someone else, or trades with the bench, your pending trade will “reset”: the timer will go back to full, and the trading sound will play once more. This is the second time I almost forget to include this one, because we got so used to it. That isn't a positive thing.
5.A.c) The old client allowed you to purchase a skin during champ select. Not the new one. Maybe that’s a choice, but then the fact that clicking on a skin gives you the message “This skin is currently not available for purchase” is a relic of a past gone two years ago. Screenshot
5.B.a) When you have the runes open, most of the champ select screen is covered, and you can only see the champions picked, the timer, and a part of the chat. Only a small part of the chat. But most importantly: the summoner spells selection is hidden by the runes.
5.B.b) You can’t see which of your friends are in queue/champ select/in game while you’re in champ select. In most cases, it doesn’t matter, but sometimes, it’s a nice thing to know, and it’s a downgrade from the legacy client. I don’t just claim that it would be nice to have simply for the sake of complaining and to then never use it, but I am currently using the phone app whenever I want that, so it is actually something I need. It also can’t be because Riot wants it to be that way, since the information is accessible through the app. By extension, you also can’t see whether your friends are online/in a blue status/away/offline without specifically opening a chat with each and every one of them (which isn't even possible anymore), and checking all of them. This is once again something that the previous client offered, and once again something that the app allows. Similarly, you can’t open your Recently played list while in champ select.
6) Chat
6.A.a) [Recent] Receiving a message plays a sound notification, but the client icon in the taskbar will not be highlighted in orange. 6.A.b) [Recent] There is no longer a "New chat" button in champ select, to allow you to talk to someone you hadn't yet opened a chat with. This feature was added shortly after the release of this client, but has mysteriously disappeared this year and hasn't been brought back yet. So that means that if you're in champ select and want to send a message to a friend… you can't! Unless you had already opened a chat with them before during this session, it's not possible.
6.A.c) You can’t copy-paste a chat in a readable format, since a chat will be like this: Person A: Message 1 Person B: Message 2 Person B: Message 3 Person A: Message 4 Person B: Message 5
And the pasted version will be like that: Message 1 Message 2 Message 3 Message 4 Message 5
This is a downgrade of the old client that would show the name of the person before every message, as well as the time stamp.
6.A.d) Typing a message in the chat will not expand the size of the typing chat box as the message goes onto more than one line, preventing you from reading what you wrote before. Screenshot - Note: This used to work fine, even in this client.
6.B.a) We still can’t see people’s status in the list of chats. The legacy client had that. At some point, it went down for maybe a week or so, and it was also bugged during the infamous 6.9 patch that killed the entire client. It was easy to feel how inconvenient it was. One day, Riot tried to put that on the new client. But they didn’t do that properly, as you’d see everyone status in the list of chats… as offline. That makes me wonder if it’s actually a design choice, or if it’s just Riot saying that they aren’t managing to do it.
7) Clubs
Clubs were a nice idea, back in the days of their creation, in early 2016. As of now… they feel like a thing of the past that no longer serves a purpose. They're no longer useful to gather a party to play, they're no longer ideal to chat in, they give you incentives to close them… Their implementation on the new client was really bad, and to make things better, occasional new bugs have kept making the problem worse since.
7.A.a) [New] Here's a fun one, that I can't explain. On one of my accounts, all of my clubs disappeared. I can't use the tags, can't access the chats, and the Clubs tag asks me to join or create clubs. Same results when trying from a different computer. However, when logging on the mobile app, I'm still in the clubs and can still interact with them, and checking from a different account also showed me that I was still among the members of these clubs.
7.A.b) [Recent] The club's page in the profile tab fails to display the statuses of the online club members who are either not in your friends list, or on League+. The status dot will be missing, and hovering on the player will show them as Offline if they aren't in your friends list. Screenshot
7.A.c) If you leave a club chat open, you’ll get a sound every time someone from the club logs in or out. That is, whenever someone from the club logs in, someone from the club logs out, someone from the club closes the club chat. That sound is exactly the same as the sound of a club message. For this very reason, it’s annoying to leave the club chat open.
7.B.a) You can no longer have interactions with other club members, as you can’t click on their name. This means: - You can’t open private chats with other club members. - You can’t invite club members to games. - You can’t view the profile of club members. - You can’t copy their names to paste it to look at their profile (for the people using special characters).
7.B.b) You can’t see the list of members without hiding most of the club chat. That doesn’t sound too bad at first, but in practice, where I used to always know the name of every single member of all of my clubs, now I pretty much have no clue about it, because I never have that list of members there to see anymore.
7.B.c) Going with the previous point, you no longer passively see which of the club members are online/available, and which ones are in game. Reminder that the original point of clubs was to play with friends.
7.B.d) You can also not see the actual status of club members, beyond just the color of the status (so, no difference between In Queue/In CS/In Game, or Online/Creating game). That one isn’t exactly a clear downgrade from the legacy client, as the latter was supposed to provide that, but would only do it for your friends among the club members, and wouldn’t display anything for the others.
7.B.e) The club chat has a very poor size optimization, with every message taking a good part of the height of the chat window due to the blank space between two messages and to the low maximum width of a message. If you use the default chat size, only three messages can usually be displayed at once. Screenshot
7.B.f) The “Message of the day” is inexistent now. It can only be seen through the Clubs tag of the profile, which nobody ever goes on, as opposed to the previous client that had it shown right next to the club’s name upon opening the club. Screenshot
7.B.g) Offline friends don’t have their tag displayed in your friends list.
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Here some good dating advice: Nobody Owes You S**T

I parked my car and walked up the hill to meet my date. It was in a bar that I’ve never been to before, we got confused because the place was so big, we were on the opposite ends of the building. When we finally met up, we had a laugh about it. We continued to have some fantastic banter back-and-forth, laughing and giggling with each other. I walked her to her car after a great night, a few hours had passed. We were both smiling and chatting, she turned to me and grabbed me and we made out. She said she had a great time that night, messaging me as soon as she got home, I replied and told her I did as well.
The next day was busy, so I messaged her the following day and brought up something we had discussed on the night. We messaged backed and forth for a bit, finally I messaged her telling her I wanted to see her again. I asked her, “so when are you free next week to hang out again?” No response. I waited a day, no response. I waited another day, no response. I found it ironic, during the date we had spoken about ghosting and how a guy had done it to her and how she didn’t appreciate it, “ironic”, I thought. A situation like this four or five years ago would’ve had me reeling with annoyance. I would have thought about it for days, perhaps even weeks later. Instead, now, I actually felt solace, like I had done on many other dates before her that didn't work out.
Here's some unpopular dating advice, women/men don't owe you shit. Lately I’ve been seeing a lot of posts about, “being honest with the person, if you’re not interested just tell them”, sorry to burst your bubble, but people don't owe you anything. I don’t know if it’s our generation, in which we feel like we are entitled for an explanation as to why someone doesn't want to see us again, but it seems like people are almost throwing a tantrum when they don’t get, “what they want”.
I see a lot of posts about people who seem to continually spend time with somebody who appears to not be “that interested” in them. My advice to people like this, who complain about being strung along, is to not be there in the first place. That is, if you have to ask, whether or not someone likes you, then there’s your answer. There should be no ambiguity, they are either into you or not. In other words, if you are being strung along, it’s entirely your fault. I know that sounds a little Unpc, and yeah it made me squirm a little bit when I first realised it, but it’s true. If you’re going to set loose boundaries, if you’re gonna let people walk all over you then it’s your fault for allowing that person to do so.
If you’re willing to let people cancel dates last minute, if you’re willing to let people sleep with other people when you want to be exclusive, then that’s on you. Your willingness to let these people do this is a direct representation of your investment in them, In other words you’re far too invested in them than your own values and needs. You are willing to put up with people who are simply not that into you. This isn’t targeting anybody in particular, but telling people that they need to “tell the person if they’re not interested”, Is simply derived from a seeded belief that people should conclude an emotional venture, no matter how long it went for. It’s ferried from neediness, a need to have your own needs met, a need to know. HOW DARE THEY NOT REPLY TO MY MESSAGES, HOW DARE THEY NOT SLEEP WITH ME. HOW DARE THEY START SEEING SOMEBODY ELSE, even though their actions clearly showed you that they weren’t interested.
Here is some solid dating advice for you:
  1. If you set the tone of the relationship in the beginning, and if you display some vulnerability and tell them exactly what you want, then your boundaries are set, what you are and not willing to put up with is cemented. This isn’t about being an asshole, it just means you have high investment in yourself and you know what you want. It means, if they try to “test” your boundary, you hold your line. “Look I’m not after that”, and you walk away and mean it. Not only has this brought women back into my life, but it has improved every relationship I have been in.
  2. If somebody acts like they don’t care, believe them. Why do you need to verbally hear, “look I’m just not into you. Basically you made a funny sound the other night and it reminded me of my ex partner. I thought about my ex partner and now that funny sound is stuck in my head, and I’m not ready to move on. Because of that I cannot be with you any more, therefore I shall leave you”. Do you know how ridiculous that sounds? Do you really think the person is gonna tell you the complete truth anyway? Nobody is ever gonna tell you the complete truth, and sometimes they simply don’t know why they don’t like you, they just don’t! So fuck it. Do you really have such a lonely life, that you need someone to fill it? Men especially need to realise that if someone isn’t interested in them, then they were never going to be happy in the relationship anyway. News flash you have other problems, go out and experience the world.
Just to conclude this, people don’t need to tell you why they don’t like you, and no one owes you an explanation. Unfortunately a lot of people in this world, are just going to ghost you. Some people have had some seriously negative experiences with people, and they would much prefer just to walk away and not have to deal with the emotional abuse that may come from it. Some of you are saying “well the majority of people aren’t like that, they are stable people”. How the fuck do you know? Come back to me when you’ve been on hundreds of dates, and have heard about the stories from hundreds of people, horror stories and narcissistic people that make you think twice about ever dating again. Sorry to say, but there is a vast majority of people out there that have seriously emotional problems, and are willing to lash out or even emotionally manipulate, or verbally attacked somebody if they’re not willing to see them again. The bottom line is, you take what you get, what you’re willing to put up with and what you’re willing to stick with is an example of your own self worth.
Hopefully people read this, I want this to hit home for a few of you. The only true dating advice out there is self improvement. You must be OKAY with being single before you allow someone to accompany you in your life.
Edit: Grammatical errors.
Edit 2: I’m not going to get into details about past experiences. I feel like I have commented enough, maybe too much about specific details, and I would prefer to stay on topic to what is discussed. Feel free to message me, much more privately. I don’t particularly want my personal life paraded around reddit, even though my username is discrete. In case you haven’t realised, I like a good discussion. This isn’t a rant, and to clarify I’m not “butthurt” by the girl in the story. She was a cool girl, and I wouldn’t wish any Ill intent on her. I’m being sincere about it.
Final Edit: Just wanted to say thanks for the awards!! All I wanted was to move peoples perspectives into a different direction, I was also sick of seeing posts of entitlement. I’m getting a lot of messages, I appreciate it, I’m also glad it helped a lot of people. I’m trying to reply to them all, might take me some time. For those of you who are questioning the validity of the story... well I’m not going to waste my time replying on that sort of thing, so don’t bother save your time. There’s another story I wrote similar 3yrs back, check it out through my profile, it happens. Also, just to make it clear, messaging the person after the date telling them you weren’t interested, Is common courtesy, it’s also a good hearted thing to do. The point is, you’re not entitled to it. The fact of the matter is, you shouldn’t “need” it or require it. A lot of you are missing the idea behind it, if someone’s shitty then they’re not worth your time anyway, so what does it matter? Because it makes you feel better? Regardless of whether or not I get an excuse after, I still have my answer, She isn’t interested.
Appreciate it! Thanks.
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How to tell if your are dating a user or manipulator How to Meet Men If You’re Over 50 Why You're Still Single 11 Signs Your “Single” Is Showing How To Tell If Your Behaviors Are Keeping You Single  10 Behaviors That Keep You Single

Some people however believe you're not single if you're dating someone exclusively. Some believe you're single if you're going out with multiple people but have yet to find someone "special" to enter into a serious relationship with. Others believe "single" means you're not dating anyone at all. The truth is, we’re responsible for our own happiness. If you’re not happy on your own, a relationship might mask that for a little while but it won’t change that. Being single at 40 helps you realize this. And if you’re not practicing it already, it’s a great time to begin creating your own happiness—whatever that means to you. 2. Dating can be flat-out exhausting these days. From the pressure of endless first dates to constant task of keeping up with all the latest and greatest dating apps, it's all-too-easy to see the appeal of getting yourself into the nearest relationship and holding onto your partner for dear life. But that definitely doesn't mean you should. The truth is that many of us need to be single—at Are you an independent woman with a rich, full, single life? Are you generally busy with your work, your friends, your family, your hobbies and your travel? Does your vision of couplehood look a lot like your life now? Just with a man dropped in it, if that’s the case, We’ve got to talk. When you're single over 40, it's natural to have moments where you wonder if you're doing something wrong, and you'd like reassurance from your date. But that's not what you're there for, she says. “If you lack self-esteem or are unhappy with yourself and your situation, it's not attractive to someone you’re newly dating,” says Ray.

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How to tell if your are dating a user or manipulator

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